Listen

He’s been able to hone in on certain people that are hurting when, like, he has no idea.

Either we know, or we don’t know and we find out after.

But, he can always tell.

There was a lady at church. We were there and Finley had seen her across the foyer. So, he just saunters off to her.

He’s never seen her before.

Anyway, he tugs on her pant leg and she looks down. He reaches up for her to pick him up and she does. He just gives her a big hug and pats her on the back.

He does this thing where he holds your face in his hands and stares right into your eyes.

He did that to the lady and she just broke.

She immediately broke down.

Turns out, she had just lost a lady that she worked with for years who had Down syndrome.

She was heartbroken.

Now, she’s the one who’s been working one-on-one with him. She got Finley to start enjoying nursery again.

I’ve been busy scribbling a book of stories about Manitobans with Down syndrome for the past few months.

I can almost see the first draft starting to take shape, but it’s stories like this that inspire me to keep writing.

Finley is five years old and has Down syndrome. His dad told me the story about little Finley and the lady at church.

Listen to people. Like, really, listen.

Like Finley listened to the lady.

Listen to their stories. People have amazing stories and they’re all worth hearing about or writing down or whatever.

All you have to do is listen.

And then write a gajillion pages in three days.

Whatever, right?

Take a break, though.

Eat a sandwich or something.

Sandwich.

Big

The Winnipeg Free Press News Café at 237 McDermott Ave. represents a major shift in the way newspapers are funded.  As classified ad revenues continue to decrease, newspapers are looking for new ways to not only generate money, but also reach their audience.

While the News Café offers a (rather small but awesome) menu of appetizers, soups, and sandwiches, it also hosts town halls, book launches, lectures and educational seminars, as well as live interviews with newsmakers.

When I was there, Tim Hague Sr. and Tim Hague Jr., the Winnipeg winners of Amazing Race Canada, were arriving and setting up for a filmed interview in the café.

Here’s what I got from the Winnipeg Free Press News Café

Cuban Sandwich: roasted pork loin and ham with pickles and swiss cheese on baguette.    $10.25

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Impressions: The toasted bread balanced out the gooey filling of the sandwich.  It was also easy to get the teeth around which is a bonus for little-mouthed me.  There were generous amounts of tender pork, ham, and cheese.  Thick slices of pickles gave most bites an extra crunch.  I will definitely go back for this again.

What Made it? Mustard Seeds.  A layering of these tasty little buds sweetened up the sandwich in a way the old yellow stuff never could.

Don’t believe me? Here’s what other people are saying.

“The sandwiches are generally stellar” – Sir Omnyvore

“[The Pulled Pork Sandwich] was messy but very tasty. The sandwich came with a fresh green salad with a vinegary salad dressing. I would gladly return here for another meal and to hear an interview. Great idea Winnipeg Free Press!” – blacksadegirl

“I love their Manitoba Club ($9.95) Bothwell aged cheddar, Winkler bacon, chicken breast and vine ripened tomato and includes a mixed green salad or potato salad. Probably one of my favourite club sandwiches in the city – real cheddar, mayo and perfect bacon.” – Dineoutgal

The thin slices of flank steak were grilled perfectly and tasted of a delicious Asian-inspired marinade. [The Vietnamese Sandwich] was topped with a crunchy coleslaw that was dominated by cilantro (luckily I like cilantro).”

– slamb